Divorcing a Narcissist
The word “narcissist” gets thrown around quite a lot. “Narcissist” is really just a fancy word for “bully,” but you might be wondering if your spouse (or your child's other parent) is actually a narcissist. Have you realized you cannot continue in your existing relationship? Is it time for a divorce or a separation? If so, you might be faced with leaving a modern-day bully.
Narcissists are usually involved in high-conflict divorce or custody actions. If you are married to one, you will probably find yourself in these tension-filled situations when you decide to leave them. To get an idea of whether you’ll have to deal with a narcissistic spouse in your divorce, consider the following signs:
Your relationship with them has been exhausting.
Your spouse has a difficult personality and feels the world should revolve around them.
Your spouse is not concerned about the feelings or interests of others.
Self-interest drives them, and they seek power and control.
You know your relationship is unhealthy.
The question isn't “if you should end the relationship.” Rather, the question is, “when should you leave the relationship?”
If you are ready to escape the toxicity of your spouse or partner, CashattWarren Family Law will help guide you through the process.
CashattWarren Family Law can help you navigate a high-conflict family law case with a narcissist and regain control of your life. Our attorneys know how to deal with narcissists who have little regard for rules, laws and court orders. We work with our clients to help them establish support systems and develop new communication skills so they can move forward. This is important because if you have children with a narcissist, you will continue to deal with them for a lifetime. Our attorneys dial back the drama and focus on the facts, identifying issues, gathering information and lining up experts to put you in the best position to win your case.
The team at CashattWarren Family Law deals with difficult personalities on the other side of cases all the time. We understand the subtle emotional distortions present in a family with a narcissistic parent or partner. By communicating and working effectively toward resolutions, we work to minimize the stress you experience in your daily life.
Contact a Family Law Attorney Today
You can always hope for the best when dealing with the bully in your life. But when the narcissist in the case is incapable of negotiating, our attorneys have the expertise to skillfully litigate your case in court. With our experienced attorneys by your side, you can also resolve your case voluntarily through an agreed-upon settlement or mediation. To get started today, contact our office at 515.421.9290.